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Relationship Feedback Guide

Gather insights on your relationships with students and elevate classroom connections.

The Relationship Feedback Guide is a quick, practical activity to gather meaningful feedback from students on classroom relationships. Grounded in Search Institute’s Developmental Relationships Framework, this resource helps teachers create structured moments for student reflection, trust-building, and continuous growth.

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Relationship Feedback Guide

Resource Audience

Teachers School / Youth Program Staff School / Youth Organization Leaders District Leaders

Resource Type

Guide

Participants

Teachers Youth School / Youth Program Staff School or Organization Leaders

# of Participants

Any

Task Length

10-15 Minutes

Small Lift, Big Insights: How the Tool Works

  • Quick & Adaptable: Requires only 5 minutes of prep and 10–15 minutes of class time. It can be administered digitally (e.g., Google Forms) or on paper.
  • Student-Centered Feedback: Students respond to 5–6 core prompts you select using an "Always, Sometimes, Never" scale, paired with open-ended reflection questions.
  • Core Framework Areas: Evaluates key relational dimensions including Expressing Care, Challenging Growth, Providing Support, Sharing Power, and Expanding Possibilities.
  • Actionable Teacher Support: Includes a structured Teacher Reflection Guide to help educators analyze response patterns, identify non-evaluative insights, and close the feedback loop with students.

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